Independent - Adria Biasi

March 10, 2020March 8, 2020Rambles

International Women’s Day and Our Household

After I wrote Friday’s post, I realized that Sunday (today) is International Women’s Day. Therefore I felt I should dive deeper into the topic of being independent, not being comfortable in asking for help, and how it relates to International Women’s Day. Reality After mentioning that it is International Women’s Day to my husband he had a remark. This was something along the line of; “Why do women always think that what we (men) do is bad, am I that way to you?” Side note, this is not the direct quote, but it was along this line (I can’t recall …

March 10, 2020March 6, 2020Friday Thoughts

Independent But Asking For Help

I like to think of myself as an independent female. When something needs to be done around the house, I find myself doing it before my husband can notice. I take pride in all of the years I was single and moved to a new state. Asking for help is something I struggle with. I need to learn to be independent but still ask for help when needed. During the worse times of my eating disorder, asking for help was not even a thought. To my mind, I was doing the right thing for my body. I was in control …